In a previous article we discussed the distinction between an Influencing Paradigm, and a Service Paradigm, to marketing your coaching business. We discussed how marketing your business is both ethically valid and commercially crucial, and how marketing is a critical process in achieving your coaching objective of having a positive impact on the lives of others. In this article we"re going to further explore exactly how you can develop a Service Paradigm marketing mindset.

Most of us carry with us beliefs that were given to us by others. As we grew up, we had a number of influences who shaped the way that we think. Some of what we were taught is useful and serves us well. However, there is a lot that we carry with us that causes us great harm. Until we analyze our belief system, we will not be able to create the life that we truly desire.

I can"t seem to discover why I"m on the planet.What is my purpose here? I know there"s something I"m supposed to be doing, but I don"t know how to find out what it is.I don"t seem to be passionate about anything.I"ve heard these complaints over and over from my clients.

Plant these Ten seeds in your life and you will be happy and contented

Most people are not aware of the power of thought or dismiss the aw of Attraction as a myth. Nothing could be further from the truth: we become what we think about.

What do you want to be when you grow up? I"m sure you were asked this question at least once when you were a youngster. When asked the question, did you have an answer at the ready, or did you need a few minutes to think about it?

Do you really own your things, or do your things own you? Sometimes its hard to tell.

People pleasing can be a defeating habit in a person"s life, simply because the act itself takes your focus off what you CAN control, and puts your focus on to what you CAN"T control, which is somebody else"s happiness and peace of mind. Here is a perfect example to illustrate my point:

If you want to enjoy your life out of spending, enjoy if you have you have your own resources and money.
But dont enjoy your life by becoming a debtor to somebody.
Of course in the modern world, there are many ways and means, which force you to become a debtor.

As long as you try to be somebody else to please your parents, peers, husband, wife, boss, children, neighbours or whatever, your energy will be stuck. You will feel exhausted, deceived, angry and tired.
So why not follow the road where your energy takes you? This is your road, your way! If you do things your way, if you dare being yourself, you will feel the energy. This IS freedom!